Many years ago when I was working in the Barrier Lake Information Centre in Kananaskis a couple from Florida came with a question. After I answered their question I had one of my own since they had told me they had been married for 27 years. My question was “What makes for a long marriage.” Here is the answer:
He: I don’t know. Don’t let the things bother you which should bother you.
She: My father told him he didn’t get her spoiled, so don’t spoil her because I won’t take her back.
Me: Did he spoil you?
He: And he wouldn’t take her back.